My Voice My Gyaan... about Life...

Gyaan... everyone keeps giving everyone... and over that expect people to listen to it...let only listening... Want them to follow it as well....so thought my gyaan my talks to myself which I want people to listen to and also to be honest want them to follow as well... will put here ..so started a blog so no one is forced to go by my thoughts but everyone is open to them...and it’s up to them to take what they want and to leave what they want...

so what will I like to start up with... many things going on in my mind.. But I will start with my hot favorite... on which I have already given gyan to many people... Especially when talks tend towards philosophy and other person is ready to listen... or acts like listening. Alcohol also helps a lot... as most of my friends got maximum lectures from me... after a few Pegs...So dear readers here is some more gyaan from bhaskar Baba. Hopefully people will like it and read it (even before I become a big celebrity) and I will keep getting time to write more.

So the topic chosen is “BALANCE "

According to me if there is anything which controls everything in and around your life it’s BALANCE...

if there is any almighty the most importing work he has is to maintain balance...

Balance is something which applies to everything in your life... is it happiness, travel, work, hard work, relationships, emotions money luck diseases... you say it and you will see that balance is playing its part there...

say for example... Problems in one’s life.... we all want our life to be problem free and we all have problems and try to show a mask that we are very happy and the most jovial person on the earth when we meet an unknown person. As you know someone more and get closer you start to tell him your issues your problems and that actually you are not that happy and all the problems you have... and immediately you see that the other person who you though is not having any problem in his/her life also turns back with problems of their life... They can be of different nature but it’s there with everyone...

And I BELIEVE that having problems only make us realizes when we don’t have them.
And everyone on this earth will have an equal share of it... There will be balance always if you are happy today it’s bound to be that you will have situations tomorrow that you will not be happy.

One can be unhappy of having no money and problems due to it, but at the same time the person who has lot of money may be wearing good clothes but can be unhappy about other issues like money at risk in market or have a skin disease under the expensive clothes. Which is not there to other poor people..?

but we tend to ignore these things and see only on things what we don’t have and others have... one person can be unhappy about the marriage and there can be 100 people who are unhappy because they are not married or can’t get married due to many issues and are ready to do any compromise for it.

one can be unhappy about his health condition and be jealous about other persons health but may be that person is having a wonderful family to support him which a person with good health don’t and is unhappy about it.

one person can be unhappy that kids don’t love them enough but there can be another person who cannot have kids at all or a person who have kids who love him her but have only few days in hand to live or not enough money to give clothes to kids...

you might be unhappy at job and there are thousands who don’t even have a job... or are happy at job but not at home or have parents not well or have other issues.

So till now what all I am saying is that we all are unhappy and have problems one or other.

SO what should be the solution should we keep living unhappy...

NO ... Not at all... we are made not to be sad... how can we got to a disco and be happy... and dancing... its the atmosphere around you what makes you do that ..It’s the people around you what makes you do that... it’s the alcohol and the mood you get in whihc makes you do that...

So... we need to create that atmosphere around us In us... to be happy from inside and outside as well...
when youare at a party or watching a movie to have a nice time as at that time you dont think about bad things happening in world or fights at home and try to put your mind to what is happening in movie or at the aprty and have a nice time...
it is subconsiously a concisous effort...

the same way we ahev to consisoulsy concentrate on the goold things in life arouns us ... qualities inus... people who love u s..Like us appreciate u s... and get motivated by it...feel ahppy beacuse of it...
see you achivementsin life and think many thousand s and thousands of people are not abel to do that... and you are special... and you need to be ahppy from inside and even if you ahve some problems you will be aware of it but will not let it rule your life and once you start keep the wrong things secondary you will see that they dont matter anymore and are not abel to keep you unhappy as there are 10 thousand things whihc makes you happy and they very well deserve it... all what you have is your and becasue you deserved it and should be rpoud of it and happy about it.

In office many people say I am not happy... with my boss... do youthyink your boss is saying at the same time that i am happy with my worker... i am 200% sur both will be unhappy from each other and if you try to create a atmosphere and remain yourself happy and try to make and keep others happy slowly the environment wil chang and both will b happy...

you can try this... a person who you know jsut for hi hello.. Start talking to him and try to make it a point to praise the other person for genuine things... not fake but real it cna be about the dress , work , family or anything conveying the mesage that you notice it and you appriciate it ...things whihc you generally will notice but will not say..And see the difference... you will find that the other person is happy in turn you will be happy , he wil tryt o keep you happy as well.. and also in additions the confidence you will have on each other and the expectation will increase as well and you can say ok if that person would have stood for me 1 out of 100 times before now it is more than 30 times.... so this is an example of creating a environment around you consciously to retain happiness and keep away unhappiness....

its a saying from Gandhi ji which does not used to make sense when we were in school but makes a lot of sense now... “if you are ever depressed about what you have achieved or have is not good or not enough at that time look at the people below you or under you who don’t have what you have and it will give you confidence... and if you think you have achieved everything... just take a look at people above you and it should motivate you that there is a lot to do still."

This is a secret to be happy... see the good things around you... see the good things people are doing for you around you... give other people a benifit of doubt, try to put yourself in there shoes and try to think their wya that why are the behaving that way what s there min set and thinking and try to change it.. I am sure you won’t be able to change it all but I am sure a little can be done. And as a result you will like him/her a little more than before...

its all about concerntrating on the right things...difficult but possible...

coming back to topic balance....god keeps balannce.. We hear population increasing... then we see of tsunamis and earth quakes killing thousands...KEEPING BALANCE....
we hear no foos some where and a lot of food going waste at other place... balance...we see person richa nd happy today and having a medical/relationship problem tommorow... again balance...

so to like is not to fight againt this balance rule but be reayd for it and take it easy and wait for the bad phase to go and keep trying your part and soon you will be happy as if there has to be bad then there will be good as well and if there is good today there has to be bad tommorow...


so iw ill end the blog for today before the gyan exceeds and no one remains intrested to read my next blog..

To summarize...
• Balance is the key and will remain.
• Everyone is happy and everyone is sad.
• Concentrate on good things and try to create in you and around you, it will reciprocate.
• Don’t fight the bad times...face it and good times will come soon.

Good luck.

Ankur Mishra...